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25 Reasons Why The Promise Seems To Be Taking So Long

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  1. The enemy is at work.
  2. It’s not the appointed time for you to walk into the promise.
  3. Complaining and Murmuring
  4. Patient has to have its perfect work so that you’re not wanting nothing (James 1:4)
  5. God is waiting for you to get to a certain level of growth and development so that you’re able to sustain and keep the promise.
  6. Your spouse isn’t ready yet.
  7. Disobedience and sin.
  8. Wrestling with God
  9. You keep giving up and running away from the promise
  10. God is waiting on you to get ready
  11. You need inner healing and deliverance
  12. God is waiting for you to overcome insecurities, feeling intimidated and feeling inadequate.
  13. Entertaining counterfeits
  14. Holding onto people God wants you to release and let go of
  15. Operating with an Orphan Mindset/Spirit
  16. Don’t know who you are in Christ
  17. God has to build your faith and trust in him
  18. You are showing signs of emotionally unstable
  19. Double-minded
  20. Witchcraft attacks
  21. Your mindset needs to be renewed
  22. Break off idolatry
  23. Break soul ties, strongholds and curses
  24. You don’t know your purpose or not working your purpose
  25. Allowing fear to hold you back

10 Things to Do When God Seems Silent

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  1. Open up your bible and start reading it because God is always speaking through his word.
  2. Go on a dry fast.
  3. Understand God is still working even in the silence.
  4. Keep doing what God told you to do.
  5. When God goes silent, you go silent. No complaining or murmuring.
  6. Keep praying and talking to God.
  7. Know that God will never leave you nor forsake you. He’s with you even in the silence.
  8. Continue being faithful and obedient to God.
  9. Don’t lose hope. 
  10. Go into praise and worship.

20 Reasons Why God Doesn’t Hurry Up And Restore Your Love Story

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  1. He’s giving your God-ordained prodigal spouse time to repent.
  2. He’s allowing the enemy to think they’re winning so that they can fall into their own traps.
  3. If he restored your God-ordained love story overnight, your prodigal spouse wouldn’t have learned all the lessons God is teaching them.
  4. He’s building character in both of you.
  5. He wants you to learn the power of prayer.
  6. He’s giving your prodigal spouse his/her encounter in knowing God and building their relationship with God.
  7. He’s anointing his chosen one in the process for where he’s taking you..
  8. He wants to heal unhealed wounds in this process.
  9. He’s breaking curses off of your life.
  10. He has plans to burn away the wrong connection.
  11. He has to correct prodigal ways of thinking and thought patterns.
  12. Prodigals have to go through their judgment.
  13. He wants to show his chosen ones he’s a God of war and will fight on your behalf and vindicate you.
  14. He wants to bless you for your obedience.
  15. He’s giving you your own testimony.
  16. He’s building your faith in the process.
  17. He has plans to restore your life and make everything new again. 
  18. He wants to reveal himself to everyone who responded wrong to his chosen one.
  19. He’s drawing the crowd of unbelievers so that they can believe again when he restores your love story.
  20. He wants to do the impossible and turn Saul into Paul.

40 Things To Do During Divine Separation Waiting On God

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God-ordained spouses have more work to do than just praying and waiting on God to restore your God-ordained love story. We have work to do!

  1. Heal your rejection and abandonment wound
  2. Release anger, resentment and bitterness from your heart
  3. Overcome your insecurities
  4. Overcome loneliness
  5. Overcome fear
  6. Go through deliverance
  7. Break soul ties
  8. Break generational curses
  9. Learn the voice of God
  10. Establish Boundaries
  11. Know what your Personal Standards are and enforce them
  12. Know your worth
  13. Learn your Identity in Christ
  14. Become Emotionally & Mentally Stable
  15. Develop Your Character
  16. Practice Purity & Self-Control
  17. Break the Orphan Mindset/Spirit
  18. Break free of people pleasing and seeking others approval
  19. Build your faith in God
  20. Grow in Confidence
  21. Practice obedience to God one day at a time
  22. Grow in the word of God
  23. Grow in Prayer & Fasting
  24. Let go of the people God told you to release
  25. Know your Purpose
  26. Work your purpose
  27. Improve your finances
  28. Learn your roles in marriage (helpmate and headship)
  29. Take care of your health
  30. Start the business
  31. Buy the house
  32. Pay off debt
  33. Write the book
  34. Start the non-profit
  35. Forgive your God-ordained spouse
  36. See your God-ordained spouse as a King/Queen
  37. Get your house in order
  38. Prepare your kids for your God-ordained marriage
  39. Learn how to cook
  40. Organize your home, paperwork, file cabinet, closet

12 Things that Are Taking Place Within Your God-ordained Prodigal Spouse During Divine Separation

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  1. Starting to see your worth and value
  2. Building new attraction for you 
  3. Urgency to get things done and in put in place
  4. Purpose is being revealed
  5. Character development
  6. Removable of wrong connection who responded to you and this love story in the wrong way
  7. Build relationship with God
  8. Healing wounds from the past
  9. Love is being made complete in them
  10. God is changing their minds about you in a good way
  11. Learning how to Lead as God-ordained Husband and Submit as God-ordained Wife
  12. Identifying you as their Spouse

Keep praying! Your prodigal is finding his/her way back home to you.